| Usual Defense | Coping Strategy |
|---|---|
| Repression (blocking out) | Letting go of the past |
| Denial (refusal to accept) | Maintain hope for the better |
| Displacement (take it out on others) | Take it out on a punching bag |
| Projection (blaming others) | Help others get over it |
| Rationalization (excuses) | Re-structure the incident |